There needs to be a phrase for “I acknowledge your apology and appreciate it but it does not make things better.” instead of just saying “It’s okay.” all the time.
I find myself saying “just do better next time” a lot.
I usually go with “I appreciate your apology, but that doesn’t make it okay”. But there is so much pressure to say that it’s alright or fixed now and just get over it right away. That’s not how feelings work though.
Swear to god, some guys are terrified that girls are faking common interests to impress them and act really hostile towards anyone they even SUSPECT of doing such a thing
but then they turn around and fake a whole friendship in the hopes of getting sex out of girls, and get mad at them when it doesn’t work
and they super do not see the irony in that